The supreme surprise of God’s love? It has nothing to do with you. Others love you because of you, because your dimples dip when you smile or your rhetoric charms when you flirt.
Some people love you because of you, but not God. He loves you because He is He. He loves you because He decides to. Self-generated, uncaused, and spontaneous, his constant-level love depends on his choice to give it. Deuteronomy 7:7 and 8 says, “The Lord did not set his affection on you and choose you because you were more numerous than other peoples, for you were the fewest of all peoples. But it was because the Lord loved you.”
You don’t influence God’s love. You can’t impact the tree-ness of a tree, the sky-ness of the sky or the rock-ness of a rock. Nor can you affect the love of God.